To a kid, such sense is nonsense

It’s been said that if you want to become truly wise, you have to make yourself a fool to the world’s wisdom.

Everyone’s born with an innate understanding of this. But then we grow up and get tangled in the straitjacket of what you might call conventional wisdom: The world is a big, ugly, dangerous place, with serious problems that require a serious mind to navigate. So we learn to fear mistakes and stop trusting our gut. We become prisoners to dogma and reason — jaded enemies of naiveté — and before we know it, we die long before we’re buried.

To a kid, such sense is nonsense. They haven’t yet forgotten what being alive is actually all about: Curiosity, wonder, and awe. Effortless play and ticklish joy. Radical trust and unconditional love. The deliciousness of watermelon on a hot summer’s day. The thrill of an evening firefly hunt. Daydreams and finger-painting. I think in our rush to grow up and take on the world, we rob ourselves of seeing what a profound and holy thing life really is.

That’s probably why Jesus taught us that if we want to see Heaven here on Earth, we have to make ourselves like little children. Why the Eastern philosophies echo his words: Taoists point to the Uncarved Block as the way and Zen masters see children as “little Buddhas”.

It almost seems too easy, but living isn’t about becoming, it’s about being.

Maybe there’s no such thing as “ready for kindergarten”. Maybe the real problem isn’t how well or quickly our kids develop, but our insistence that everything should develop linearly. My gut tells me we’ve got things backwards, and when it comes to cultivating true wisdom, instead of teaching our kids, we should be learning from them.

Daniel Younger